No relationship is ever a waste of time. If it didn’t bring you what you want, it taught you what you don’t want. This is a lesson that I’m still learning🤷🏽‍♀️

As I am shifting, I will begin to realize I am not the same person I used to be. The things I used to tolerate have now become intolerable. Where I once remained quiet, I’m now speaking my truth.

Where I once battled and argued, I’m now choosing to remain silent. I’m beginning to understand the value of my voice, and there are some situations that no longer deserve my time, energy and focus.

Intentional will be my action for 2022. I will be Intentional in what I say. Intentional in who I am around. Intentional in the way I will live my life.

INTENTIONAL….

I hit a wall, but did not fall. I did not break, I broke through. With every loss there comes a blessing. With every tear there is release & healing. With every challenge there is an opportunity to prevail and find a better way.

There is always a gift. Always a reason to be thankful. It is always appropriate to choose gratitude. See ya next year❤️

Don’t Weather The Storm, Be The Storm..

You’re not behind in life. There’s no schedule or time table that we all must follow. It’s all made up. Wherever you are is exactly where you need to be. Seven billion people can’t do everything in exactly the same scheduled order. We are all different with a variety of needs and goals. Some get married early some get married late, while others don’t get married at all. What is early? What is late? Compared with whom? Compared with what? Some want children, some don’t. Some want a career, others enjoy taking care of house and children. Your life is not on anyone else’s schedule. Don’t beat yourself up for where you are right now. It’s YOUR timeline, not anyone else’s, and nothing is off schedule😊

You don’t always have to be strong. Sometimes you need to scream, cuss, throw shit, or have a really good cry. But you always, always, always need to pull yourself back together, then go back to being the badass you were meant to be

Choose to tell the truth, even if you’ve been lied to. Choose to love again, even after heartbreak. Never let anything stop you from learning and growing. Always….