Second Chance….

In life we are given chances to change. It could be the way we act, how we live or to simply do what’s right. All those count and matter, but for me to have a second chance at Real Love is the most😊

To be given the opportunity to rekindle, learn from your mistakes, develop a strong communication link and the ultimate, to given time.

I’ve been given time to experience a kind of love with a soulmate that is my twin 🔥 I couldn’t be more grateful for this second chance❤️💙

#EASY

Past….

Found two meanings for the word past… (1)What has already happened. (2)Gone by , ended. The year of 2023 has shown me so much. Maturity, laughter, anger, excitement, and most of all Love.

It was one heck of a ride 2023, but I’ve learned that it’s ok to peek back every once in a while but never stay. So I will release the past and build a positive future. I welcome 2024 with big arms❤️❤️

Giving Up….

Today I gave up something that would’ve probably helped me in the long run. Before I gave it up I asked myself Is it worth it? Do I really need it? Would it be satisfying to just leave it. The answer to those questions was HELL YES!!!

I’ve learned that anything that will potentially become an issue or drain you emotionally is not worth having. So I through caution to the wind and kissed it good bye💋

My question to you is what is it that you don’t need? Second question LOL. Are you willing to give it up??

Dear BStorm….

I want to try something different. I would like if you see this post… to ask any question, comment on any of my posts, or share with me about anything.

Can’t wait to hear from you!!!❤️💛🧡🩵💙

Marriage Counseling….

So before I got married we went through marriage counseling. It was good, got a lot of what we needed to prepare us. Likes, dislikes, what our roles are in the marriage yada yada yada. Lol.

But unfortunately it didn’t last. I wondered why, what did I do, what I could’ve done more of. All of the above questions. I later became content with…when you go through marriage counseling you are getting information to be able to make an informed decision based on what you know at the present time about that person.

But at the alter you are saying “I do” to what you don’t know.

DEAD ASS😏

Minds….

Our minds will have us feeling crazy at times. It will play tricks on you. It will have you thinking about a time in your life that you didn’t want to, a bad break up, death, etc. With that being said I’m learning to train my mind to not let it go to places I don’t want to.

Think about it… If you’re thinking about the future you’re sitting in anxiety. If you’re thinking about the past you’re sitting in depression, but if your thoughts are present you should be the happiest.

So in a nutshell change your thoughts don’t let them overtake you especially the bad ones.

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Breathe….

This came across my phone and it hit hard for me today. Just wanted to share…

As you breathe right now another person takes their last. So stop complaining and learn to live your life with what you have.

I have to make an intentional effort to make sure I don’t complain about anything each and every day. Especially if I’ve been granted another day to be here❤️

Actions….

There are two types life actions in this world, Wish I Had/I’m Glad I Did

For so long I’ve been living my life as the wish I had person, finishing college, having a successful career etc. I’ve also had so many amazing, I’m glad I did moments. Even in the teary soul crushing days I’m glad I had those too. They have forever shaped me.

For the rest of my walk I will strive to have less of, I wish I hads and will fearlessly say yes and look back at my life and say….GIRL I’M GLAD I DID💛