I’m Learning to Choose Peace…

Peace isn’t something the world hands you — it’s something your spirit learns to choose.

I’m learning that peace doesn’t always come wrapped in quiet moments or perfect days. Sometimes it shows up in the middle of chaos… in the pause before a reaction… in the decision to walk away instead of engaging… in the deep breath taken before saying anything at all.

Choosing peace isn’t weakness.

It’s wisdom.

It’s clarity.

It’s maturity.

It’s realizing that not every battle deserves your energy, not every conversation requires your presence, and not every memory deserves space in your today.

Peace is understanding that protecting your spirit is more important than proving a point.

It’s giving yourself permission to let go — of old stories, old hurts, old versions of yourself who didn’t know better.

It’s standing firm in who you’re becoming, not who you used to be.

I’m learning to choose peace…

Not because everything is perfect,

but because I’m learning to be.

BSTORM🫶🏽

Grace For The Season…..

Sometimes we forget that God gives us fresh grace for the season we’re in, not the season we left behind. You don’t have to be who you were yesterday. You don’t have to carry what you carried last year.

Right now, in this exact moment, you are covered.

You are becoming. You are growing. And GRACE is meeting you exactly where you are.

Love, BStorm💖

Here and Now…

We spend so much of our time looking back — replaying old scenes, revisiting old pain, reliving what’s already behind us. But God never called us to live in rewind.

The present is holy ground.

It’s where breath lives.

It’s where peace finds us.

When we dwell too long in the past, we miss the blessings being poured right in front of us. Jesus meets us here — not in what was, but in what is.

Every sunrise is proof that we’re meant to keep moving forward. The lessons behind us shaped us, but they don’t define us. The moment you stop looking back, you start to see that God has been walking beside you the whole time.

So take a breath. Be still.

This — right here, right now — is your miracle in motion. ✨

💬 Your Turn

What’s one thing you’re grateful for in this moment?

Holding Tension…

The world teaches us to choose — light or dark, joy or pain, faith or fear. But what if the real growth happens when we learn to hold both?

Holding tension isn’t weakness; it’s divine balance. It’s standing between what is and what’s becoming — trusting that God is still present in the in-between.

Spiritually, it’s the pause before the breakthrough. The quiet ache before the dawn. Jesus held tension on the cross — between heaven and earth, between surrender and strength — and through that tension, grace was born.

When we learn to hold our own, we discover that peace isn’t found by escaping the struggle, but by standing steady inside it.

We breathe.

We trust.

We let the stretch make us stronger.

Because the world will always pull, twist, and test us — but what’s divine in us cannot be broken.

💬 Your Turn

What tension are you learning to hold — and what is it teaching you about trust?

Shackles To Purpose…..

For a long time, I thought my past defined me. Every mistake. Every heartbreak. Every decision. Every valley. But I’v learned that my journey was never meant to keep me in shackles. It was meant to shape me. To teach me. To prepare me for something better.

Jesus doesn’t see my past as chains- He sees it as testimony. Every storm I walked through became a chapter in the story He’s writing through me. Every scar is proof of His healing power.

The enemy wants me stuck in shame. But Jesus calls me into freedom. He whispers: “You are forgiven. You are chosen. You are mine” So I will continue to walk forward- not as someone bound, but as someone free. Not chained to who I was, but crowned in who He’s called me to be.

BSTORM

The Hardest Lesson My Heart Ever Learned…

My heart has been broken, stretched, and tested. And in the process, it’s learned lessons I never imagined I’d survive. the hardest one? That sometimes the people you love most aren’t meant to stay. I learned that letting go doesn’t mean you’re weak- it means you’re brave enough to choose yourself. I learned that heartbreak can be the soil where healing grows. I’ve learned the endings don’t destroy you, they shape you.

It was a painful lesson, but it turned me into the woman I am today- stronger, softer, and more certain of my worth.

💬 Your Turn:

What’s the hardest lesson your heart has ever learned? Share it with me- your words might give someone else the courage they need.

Yours Truly,

BSTORM

THE LOVE I GIVE MYSELF…..

I used to think love was something I had to wait for, earn, or prove myself worthy of. But I’ve learned that the most important love story I’ll ever live is the one I write with myself.

Self-love looks like:

💫 Saying “no” without guilt.

💫 Celebrating my wins, even the small ones.

💫 Speaking kindly to myself in the mirror.

💫 Trusting my own voice above the noise.

When I give myself love, I stop chasing it from the wrong places. And the more I fill myself up, the more I attract the kind of love that feels safe, steady, and true.

BSTORM

QUEEN…

Queen Energy Only

There comes a point where you stop begging for tables and start building your own throne. Where you stop explaining your worth and simply embody it.

For me, that’s Queen Energy:

✨ Protecting my peace.

✨ Knowing my value.

✨ Setting boundaries like royalty.

✨ Loving myself out loud.

And once you step into that energy, you can’t go back. 👑

💬 Your Turn:

What’s your mantra when you need to tap into your queen energy? Share it below — because your words might crown someone else. 🔥

XOXO

BSTORM

5 Things I Know For Sure….

Life can be unpredictable, messy, and beautiful-but there are a few truths I carry no matter what.

  1. Healing takes time, and that’s okay.
  2. Love should feel like peace, not chaos.
  3. Protecting your energy is not selfish, it’s survival.
  4. Laughter is medicine.
  5. I am stronger than the storm I survived.

These are my constants. My anchors. My reminders that even when life shifts, I know who I am and what matters most.

BSTORM✌🏽

💃🏽Unapologetically Me…

For too long, I shrank myself to fit in. I apologized for being “too much.” I softened my edges, hid my voice, questioned my worth.

Not anymore.

Now, I celebrate the quirks, the flaws, the lessons, the scars. I own the fire and the softness. I know who I am — and I’m done saying sorry for it.

Because the truth is: when you stop apologizing for existing, you finally start living.

💬 Your Turn

Fill in the blank with me:

“One thing I’ll never apologize for again is ____.”

Say it loud. Say it proud. This is your safe space. 👑✨