I want to try something different. I would like if you see this post… to ask any question, comment on any of my posts, or share with me about anything.

Can’t wait to hear from you!!!❤️💛🧡🩵💙

I want a Love stronger than Space and Time❤️

So before I got married we went through marriage counseling. It was good, got a lot of what we needed to prepare us. Likes, dislikes, what our roles are in the marriage yada yada yada. Lol.

But unfortunately it didn’t last. I wondered why, what did I do, what I could’ve done more of. All of the above questions. I later became content with…when you go through marriage counseling you are getting information to be able to make an informed decision based on what you know at the present time about that person.

But at the alter you are saying “I do” to what you don’t know.

DEAD ASS😏

It takes away your power, your voice, and your choice.

These things have to be given back!!!

Our minds will have us feeling crazy at times. It will play tricks on you. It will have you thinking about a time in your life that you didn’t want to, a bad break up, death, etc. With that being said I’m learning to train my mind to not let it go to places I don’t want to.

Think about it… If you’re thinking about the future you’re sitting in anxiety. If you’re thinking about the past you’re sitting in depression, but if your thoughts are present you should be the happiest.

So in a nutshell change your thoughts don’t let them overtake you especially the bad ones.

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This came across my phone and it hit hard for me today. Just wanted to share…

As you breathe right now another person takes their last. So stop complaining and learn to live your life with what you have.

I have to make an intentional effort to make sure I don’t complain about anything each and every day. Especially if I’ve been granted another day to be here❤️

There are two types life actions in this world, Wish I Had/I’m Glad I Did

For so long I’ve been living my life as the wish I had person, finishing college, having a successful career etc. I’ve also had so many amazing, I’m glad I did moments. Even in the teary soul crushing days I’m glad I had those too. They have forever shaped me.

For the rest of my walk I will strive to have less of, I wish I hads and will fearlessly say yes and look back at my life and say….GIRL I’M GLAD I DID💛

For so long we tend to live our lives based on how our parents/parent did it. How our siblings or even best friends are going about it.

I’ve chosen to live my life, making it exactly what I WANT IT TO BE😏

I’ve learned that I can’t go after my life with such aggression and feeling overwhelmed.

I have to take it… ONE STEP, ONE PUNCH, ONE ROUND AT A TIME🥊🥊🥊🥊

Stability the quality, state, or degree of being stable. I want to pose a question to you, in which I had to pose to myself. Which would you prefer EMOTIONAL or MATERIAL STABILITY in a relationship??

Me personally I want emotional stability. Having material things is nice don’t get me wrong. The car, the house, trips, money etc anything you could ever want. But what happens when your partner can’t communicate or show you the vulnerability that’s needed. The love that’s needed to sustain the mental spiritual and physical parts in a relationship. When you’re trying to figure out and understand someone and they just show it through another trip or some money.

When things get out of control and they’re not working out all you are left with is the shell of that house. What matters is the inside and if it’s not solid it will dissolve.

Which will you choose??

Thanks for the convo my SisterLove❤️